Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thankful for Thanksgiving!

Grandpa Jarvis, Kaleb, Ben & Dylan...just happy to be alive as you can see!

Stuffed silly!

Mama's boy...he won't let me out of his sight lately!

I am a true lover of Thanksgiving. It's not so much the feast or the football, although I love that too, but more just the idea of everyone stopping their busy lives to give thanks. It's such a wonderful chance for us all to think about our many blessings and express gratitude to our Savior and those we love. Our old bishop sent out an email with a thought provoking quote that I'd like to remember and share. Father Patrick Henry Reardon writes, “Suppose for a moment that God began taking from us things for which we failed to give thanks. Which of our limbs and faculties would be left? Would I still have my hands and mind? And what about loved ones? If God were to take from me all those persons and things for which I have not given thanks, who and what would be left of me?” I am so, so grateful for each of you, my wonderful friends and family, who have touched my life so deeply and made me a very happy girl!

On a lighter note, here's some Thanksgiving highlights:
*Kaleb saw a black man on tv as we were watching the parade and said, "That looks like Grandpa!" Aside from the fact that he was black, the man was also grimacing in a frown and barking off orders to his troupe of acrobats. We of course asked, "Which one? Grandpa Murdock or Grandpa Stock?" "You know, the one in Oregon." We immediately called Dad at 7:45 am OR time and after getting a good laugh, he said he better come down and visit us so Kaleb knows what his grandpa looks like!
*Kaleb also made up his own Thanksgiving song to the tune of Mary had a Little Lamb: Murray had a little turkey, little turkey, little turkey. Murray had a little turkey who was on top of his head! This was sung to several grandparents all day while dancing on couches and jumping on beds.
*My pumpkin roll and homemade rolls were a hit at the Jarvis Thanksgiving reunion. It's always great to be around family and I love my cousins, aunts & uncles...they're all so great and wonderful to include us! Dylan loved Jenny's pumpkin cookies and had one in each hand. Randy made the BEST carrots I've ever tasted!
*We had a nice visit with G & G Jarvis in Mesa and Ben performed surgery on Gramma Rosie. She had stabbed herself with a pencil and there was lead embedded in her heel for 3 days until Ben dug it out! Grossness aside, she also shared a YUMMY lucious lemon bundt cake with us, and gave me the recipe.
*Good conversations with loved ones near & far. It's been a "grate" day for us all & we feel truly blessed!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Kaleb Update

3 Going on 13: Kaleb has really been on one lately. One minute he'll say and do the sweetest things...the next the exact opposite. Yesterday he spontaneously told me I was his best friend, that he loved me, and gave me a huge hug and kiss. Compare that to a few weeks ago when we muttered, "Stupid Mommy" under his breath after I had repeatedly asked him to clean up his toys. I asked him if he knew what "stupid" meant and he didn't know, but I'm still trying to figure out where he picked it up from. Punishment was time out and his first Murdock Report... a discipline tool my mom used when we were really in trouble. I thought I had at least a couple of years before the back talk begins! Can you just hear, "Don't you talk to me that way, young man!' coming out echoing my own mother's voice?
Kaleb's first Murdock Report

Little Ladie's Man: He also has a little girlfriend, Natalie. Natalie and Kaleb have been best of friends for about a year or so. They have been in the same preschool, music makers, and playgroup for quite a while now, and always have a lot of fun together. Kaleb is fascinated by Natie's girl toys & sparkling personality, and Natie seems to think Kaleb is her prince. She often tells K that they're going to get married, to which Kaleb promptly responds, "Kids don't get married, mommies & daddies do." Pretty cute. All of Kaleb's preschool buds run to greet each other and give hugs when they're coming and going, but Kaleb tried to take it a step further a few weeks ago. Chrissy was picking up Natie and we were talking while she was getting into their car. Pretty soon I hear Kaleb say, "Wait Natalie, I want to give you a kiss!" Ha! Must have learned that from his dad. :)

A Child's Prayer: Kaleb is really good about remembering to pray and always gives thanks for our food for each meal. He often wants to say it "after I take a drink" or wants to be the one to choose who offers the prayer. He also likes to pray when we're out to eat, (something that Ben & I don't really do) and often tries to kneel down on the church pew when prayers are being said in sacrament meeting. That being said, Natalie came over for dinner one night and Kaleb wanted her to say the prayer. Well, I think she said she didn't know how, so one of us said the prayer...no big deal. Then yesterday, Chrissy shared with me that Natie has been wanting to say prayers when they eat, ever since that night she had dinner with us. She even insisted on stopping a huge birthday crowd for her great grandma's birthday so she could say the prayer before their dinner. So sweet!

Other Fun Stuff: K has really taken to wearing his black superman cape and regularly wears it out in public for errands in the afternoon. He has started noticing other kids when they're acting naughty and we'll have a nice conversation about their behavior, but thinks nothing of it when he's in the middle of one of his own tirades. Kaleb has also taken on the role of "interpreter" for Dylan. D is really babbling now, and does say a few real words, but Kaleb is constantly saying, "Mom...Dylan just said ______!" It's almost always something ridiculous, including the word "butt" which he knows is a bad word in our house. Already trying to get Dylan in trouble! For the most part, he's such a good big brother, and it's so fun watching them really play together. I love my boys!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

A Walk Down Memory Lane...

All about High School!

1. DID YOU DATE SOMEONE FROM YOUR SCHOOL? I dated lots of guys in high school...almost always older than me. I tried flirting my best with Ben, but he never really asked me out til after his mission.
2. WHAT KIND OF CAR DID YOU DRIVE? A silver Monte Carlo...the Silver Bullet. It was a boat, but good memories were made in that car!
3. DID YOU PASS YOUR DRIVER'S LICENSE TEST YOUR FIRST TRY? Yes, mom checked me out of school that morning and we went in on my birthday. I remember reading the manual on the way into the DMV & wanting to drive home on the way back. Mom wasn't up for that, but we did practice in the church parking lot. Okay, maybe that was for my permit.
4. WHERE YOU A PARTY ANIMAL? Not so much.
5. WERE YOU CONSIDERED A FLIRT? I don't really know. Probably not since I couldn't get Ben to ask me out!
6. WERE YOU IN BAND, ORCHESTRA, OR CHOIR? Of course not. But my mom could tell exactly how my dates went depending on what I played on the piano when I got home!
7. WERE YOU A NERD? I was friends with everyone, nerds included, so that probably made me a nerd. I don't know, I was probably labeled more with the jock-preppy types.
8. WERE YOU ON ANY VARSITY TEAMS? Yes...I made Varsity softball as a freshman and played throughout high school. I also lettered in volleyball, I think my sophomore through senior years.
9. DID YOU EVER GET SUSPENDED/EXPELLED? No... I was a goody-goody and felt guilty skipping on Senior Skip Day!
10. CAN YOU STILL SING THE FIGHT SONG? Come on Newberg Tigers, let's go!!! Or somethin' like that. I still remember several of the cheers from high school football/basketball games.
11. WHO WERE YOUR FAVORITE TEACHERS? My fav. teacher of all time was in middle school, Miss Mac. I had her for 3 years in a few subjects and she was also my coach for volleyball & basketball. In high school it was prob. Sinkbeil, my math teacher. April and I were always cracking jokes with him.
12. WHERE DID YOU SIT FOR LUNCH? I guess I wasn't too much of a goody goody cuz April and I snuck off campus as freshmen every day. I don't ever remember eating in the cafeteria. We normally just went to my house which was 2 min. away, but sometimes we'd go out for fast food with friends.
13. WHAT IS YOUR SCHOOL'S FULL NAME? Newberg High School
14. WHAT IS YOUR SCHOOL'S MASCOT AND COLORS? The Tigers....blue and gold
15. DID YOU GO TO HOMECOMING AND WITH WHO? I went with Nate two years in a row, he was really nice and it was my first dance/date. I also went with Jeremy and Cody, I believe.
16. IF YOU COULD GO BACK AND DO IT AGAIN WOULD YOU? Maybe. If I could do things differently I would have continued to play basketball as a JR & SR (I quit b/c I sprained my ankle at the end of volleyball and wanted to work part time) & do a redo on my prom experiences for sure!)
17. WHAT DO YOU REMEMBER MOST ABOUT GRADUATION? Hmm... someone popped out of the aisle to take our picture (me & April) and we thought it was hilarious...like paparazzi. I think they tried to stop us from throwing our caps, but we did anyway. I remember it was hot and at the college in our home town, George Fox. My parents surprised me and gave me jewelry and we all went out for Chinese before hand. I had no idea graduation was such a big deal.
18. WHERE DID YOU GO SENIOR SKIP DAY? We went to Hagg Lake.
19. WERE YOU IN ANY CLUBS? Key Club, sports, SR class VP.
20. HAVE YOU GAINED SOME WEIGHT SINCE THEN? I def. gained weight through college, lost it after Ben & I were married, and have been up and down ever since babies came along. I'm probably pretty close to the same size, although I can't seem to get rid of my dreadful muffin top...I didn't even know what that was in high school!
21. WHO WAS YOUR PROM DATE? My best high school boyfriend, Ryan, was in college and didn't want to take me my JR year. He thought it would be weird going back to our high school prom, so I didn't go! My friend from German class, Sam, asked me my SR year and it was a disaster! But really funny now.
22. ARE YOU PLANNING ON GOING TO YOUR 10 YEAR REUNION? Did... kind of. There was a bigger one over the summer that I missed, but we got together over Christmas that year at a bar. It was really fun actually. Everyone who came seemed really happy and most had changed for the better.
23. DID YOU HAVE A JOB IN HIGH SCHOOL? Yes, I worked at a pizza shop...Papa Murphy's Take & Bake. We called it the pit, but it was a good job for that time in my life. 3 of my 4 brothers ended up working there after me.

I tag: Mon, Robyn, Jen, Chrissy, Cindy & Kelly...have fun!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

All Hallow's Eve



We had a week's worth of fun to celebrate Halloween & really got good mileage out of our costumes this year. Of course by the time it was really Halloween, Kaleb had decided he wanted to be a pirate. I got smart this year (last year K was a jack o lantern & a bee) and told him no, maybe next year. Sheesh, by the time Dylan's talking he won't get away with anything! Kaleb had a dress up parade for Music Makers, Dylan and I chaperoned the Monster Mash, we had a preschool bash, and finally a trunk or treat with the ward and dinner with friends. Fun times had by all! Here's some highlights in pictures...so bootiful!

Preschoolers really know how to party!
We posed for pictures,
cast some spells,
chomped on some worms,

and guzzled some spiders.

Everyone seemed to have a ball!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Catch up post... back to Cali

Friday we headed up the coast and stopped in La Jolla on our way to Barb's house. We had a nice walk, K & Dad played in the ocean, and we were able to walk out to see and see the harbor seals in their natural habitat. So nice!


The waves were so awesome here!

After La Jolla, we made it to Barb's and got to catch up with her and her cute boys. It was so fun being together again and especially seeing the cousins play. Dylan and Kaden are only four months apart and had so much fun!

Here's some pics of their ward trunk or treat that we tagged along to... our first "Incredible" outing. It was tons of fun! They have an annual chili cook off with cornbread, pie, and homemade rootbeer before hand followed, by a costume parade. Their ward went all out with the decorations and even had a cute picture booth. Very impressive inside, although the outside trunk or treat part was a bit chaotic. Nothing us super heroes couldn't handle!

Cutie cousins waiting for candy.



The Cullen family/Babs, Kaden & Jared.

Looking a little mischievious.

Our "Incredible" family... I love my boys!



My SIL, Babs, & I manning the trunk. Notice the lollipop in Dylan's hand & apple in the other. :)

The next day we just chilled and checked out another fabulous California beach...Crescent Bay. I could seriously live here! People have private beach access above in their 4-5 million dollar homes....not that I need a millionaire's home to be happy, but check out the view!







We ended the night with dinner and an outing to the pumpkin patch. Fun, fun, fun!






Thanks for having us Christensen Gang...we love you!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Yes We Can!

Tonight we, the American people, made history. As I am blogging as a way to preserve our family's history, as well as to communicate with friends & family near & far, I wanted to record this monumental event for my boys. I feel like it will be one of those days that people will remember and people will talk about for decades to come. Where were you, who did you vote for, what did you feel?

As a million people rallied to support Barack Obama while he accepted his nomination as President-Elect, we were at home watchng... eyes glued to the TV. I must admit that although I did not vote for Obama, I was moved and encouraged by his speech. I especially appreciated his references to Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King Jr. and other events in history...how America has been shaped and is continuously changing. I hope our elected officials will be able to make the changes our country needs, although it makes me nervous to have so much power given to the democratic party. Most importantly, I hope they remember to get down on their knees as our founding fathers did on many occasions, and I really wish the new first lady would have picked a better dress for her husband's big night! ;)


President-elect Barack Obama speaking to 125,000 suppiorters in Chicago's Grant Park Nov 4, 2008

Complete Text of Remarks by President-Elect Barack Obama, Nov. 4, 2008, Chicago, Ill.

If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible; who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time; who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.

It’s the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen; by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the very first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different; that their voice could be that difference.

It’s the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Latino, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled – Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been a collection of Red States and Blue States: we are, and always will be, the United States of America.

It’s the answer that led those who have been told for so long by so many to be cynical, and fearful, and doubtful of what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

It’s been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this day, in this election, at this defining moment, change has come to America.

I just received a very gracious call from Senator McCain. (UPDATE: Complete text of Sen. John McCain's concession speech available here.) He fought long and hard in this campaign, and he’s fought even longer and harder for the country he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine, and we are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader. I congratulate him and Governor Palin for all they have achieved, and I look forward to working with them to renew this nation’s promise in the months ahead.

I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart and spoke....

...for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on that train home to Delaware, the Vice President-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.

I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last sixteen years, the rock of our family and the love of my life, our nation’s next First Lady, Michelle Obama. Sasha and Malia, I love you both so much, and you have earned the new puppy that’s coming with us to the White House. And while she’s no longer with us, I know my grandmother is watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight, and know that my debt to them is beyond measure.

To my campaign manager David Plouffe, my chief strategist David Axelrod, and the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics – you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you’ve sacrificed to get it done.

But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to – it belongs to you.

I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn’t start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington – it began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston.

It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give five dollars and ten dollars and twenty dollars to this cause. It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation’s apathy; who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep; from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on the doors of perfect strangers; from the millions of Americans who volunteered, and organized, and proved that more than two centuries later, a government of the people, by the people and for the people has not perished from this Earth. This is your victory.

I know you didn’t do this just to win an election and I know you didn’t do it for me. You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime – two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century.

Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us. There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after their children fall asleep and wonder how they’ll make the mortgage, or pay their doctor’s bills, or save enough for college. There is new energy to harness and new jobs to be created; new schools to build and threats to meet and alliances to repair.

The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even one term, but America – I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you – we as a people will get there.

There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won’t agree with every decision or policy I make as President, and we know that government can’t solve every problem. But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face.

I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And above all, I will ask you join in the work of remaking this nation the only way it’s been done in America for two-hundred and twenty-one years – block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.

What began twenty-one months ago in the depths of winter must not end on this autumn night. This victory alone is not the change we seek – it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you.

So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism; of service and responsibility where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves, but each other. Let us remember that if this financial crisis taught us anything, it’s that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers – in this country, we rise or fall as one nation; as one people.

Let us resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let us remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House – a party founded on the values of self-reliance, individual liberty, and national unity.

Those are values we all share, and while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress. As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, “We are not enemies, but friends…though passion may have strained it must not break our bonds of affection.” And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn – I may not have won your vote, but I hear your voices, I need your help, and I will be your President too.

And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of our world – our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand. To those who would tear this world down – we will defeat you.

To those who seek peace and security – we support you. And to all those who have wondered if America’s beacon still burns as bright – tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from our the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity, and unyielding hope.

For that is the true genius of America – that America can change. Our union can be perfected. And what we have already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.

This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that’s on my mind tonight is about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She’s a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing – ABarack Obama family at his Grant Park speechnn Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn’t vote for two reasons – because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

And tonight, I think about all that she’s seen throughout her century in America – the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can’t, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.

At a time when women’s voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs and a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.

When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.

She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that “We Shall Overcome.” Yes we can.

A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination. And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change. Yes we can.

America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves – if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made?

This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time – to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American Dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth – that out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we can’t, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people:

Yes We Can. Thank you, God bless you, and may God Bless the United States of America.


***On another important note, our lovely state of Arizona united and voted yes on Prop 102, which clearly defines marriage between one man and one woman for our state's constitution. With some nudging from a friend in the ward, we got involved and handed out flyers in our neighborhood, and posted a sign in our yard. I felt good going to the polls today when I voted, and am so happy with the outcome of this point alone. I also felt good about the research I had done on the candidates for all the races large and small. If I had to do it over again, I would definitely be more on the ball and request a ballot that I could do from home....maybe next time.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Election Selection

The Big Day is almost here! If you're like me and not as informed as you'd like to be, check this link out: http://abcnews.go.com/politics/MatchoMatic/fullpage?id=5542139 . You can decide which statement you agree with more, and it will give you the results of who you should vote for at the end. Kind of an unbiased way to look at the issues, I guess. Hope it helps, now get out there & VOTE!