Text on Tuesday

From Babs, my wonderful SIL: (We'd been texting about how inadequate we feel at doing everything all the time).

"We need to organize not only our homes but also our time. Some women spend too much time keeping their homes clean and organized. They need to learn how to spend less time on housework in order to spend more time being with their families, developing talents, and serving others. Housework is important, but it should not take away from more important things. Having a clean home should not be our main goal, it should be part of our goal to be happy and have happy families. We need time to develop our talents and learn to live principles of the gospel. We should have time to serve in church positions, help our neighbors and those in need, and be good missionaries. When we keep our home clean without spending too much time on housework, we are free to spend more time in family activities and to do other important things." -Brigham Young

It was so nice to bond with my sister and know that I'm not the only one that struggles with these things. She'd just given a lesson on this in RS & shared the above quote with me. I feel like my house is rarely clean...esp all at the same time, but my kids & Ben know they are loved, and my friends know they can count on me. Heavenly Father has blessed me with wonderful people in my life and He gives me encouragement when I need it, through them. (I've been in a bit of a funk lately.) Here's another gem from earlier in the week from my bro, Jonny.

Remember dad's face during that movie your last night here? That image makes me happy:) love you!

Me: One of many great memories!!! That face & that belly laugh. :) just watched the sandlot with the kids for the first time. K, "that was the best movie ever!"

Yes!! I love it, and that movie is goodies! Your a great mama sis!

It's nice to hear every once in a while. Ben & the kids tell me too, but you know how the ones who love you most think you can do no wrong? It feels mostly like that when they tell me. Plus Ruby & Kaleb have both gone through stages where they tell me in the sappiest voice, "You're the best mom ever!" along with a big hug & kiss several times a day. I love it of course, but when you hear it all day and see a dirty house, a huge to-do list, & on occasion get grumpy with your kids, you tend not to believe it. Being a Mom is the hardest, yet most rewarding "job" ever. I feel so blessed and lucky to be able to live my dream of being a stay at home mom to our three amazing kids.